Some people seem to be naturals when it comes to making conversation, but for many, it is difficult to talk to someone they have just met or don’t know very well. If you’re like me, you’ve sometimes wished you had the confidence to be better at conversing with others; and you are quite sure that if you were a better conversationalist, you would have more confidence.

It can be downright frustrating at times, because you know that people are judging you by your ability (or lack of it) to carry on a conversation. But there is good news! Anyone who has the right attitude can learn the “art” of good conversation. After all, learning how to carry on an interesting conversation with someone is really just using good manners and showing a genuine int We all To make it a point to learn the art of making good conversation, you must:

A –Ask questions to get others talking about them selves, and then listen to their answers.
Ask about the other person’s job, their family, their hobbies, their recent travels. You can also ask about favorite movies, music or sports; their home town, church, educational background or something about current events.

R–Relate with the other person.
Share something about yourself that relates to what the other person has shared with you. As a result of listening intently, you both will discover common interests that will naturally cause the conversation to flow more easily.
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T–Talk in the terms of the other person’s interests.
No one likes to listen to someone go on an on about a subject that doesn’t interest them, so be sensitive.

Add to these a friendly smile and an courteous and respectful attitude, and you will be well on your way to mastering the art of good conversation.