There have been times in my life when it felt like my life was a train wreck waiting to happen. (Yes, I can admitthis, though it is hard to do so!) I found through the process of hitting the brick walls, and getting slammed around, that in the darkest of moments, there is always a reason for everything that happens and that life's challenges will either make us or break us.
I have also learned, through the difficulties of life, that it is vital to have a life plan or a life strategy. This is especially true when we get knocked off track or have hit that so-called 'brick wall.' We need to have a tool for getting us back on the right path, and a life strategy is just the key.
At this point you may be wondering how to go about creating a life strategy. I will walk you through the process, which is really quite simple.
First, make a list of the top priorities in your life. Key areas to consider might be realationship with God, Spouse, and Children, Home/Family, Career/Professional, Financial, Hobbies, Social, Political, Education and Self Improvement.
Next, develop a mission statement for each of these areas. State what you want in each priority and why you want it.
Then, write a plan of action for each of these priorities. In each plan, list some specific strategies you would like to see implemented. For instance, on the 'Spouse' page, I may include: Take Vicki out on a date at least once a month for 'Just Because I Love You Day' . . . Spend time debriefing at the end of each day . . . and so on. The 'Children' page may include: Implement a family game night every Friday . . . Be home for all birthdays even if it means turning down work . . . I am sure you get the idea.
Compile your plans into a 3-ring binder, arranging them in the order of priority to you. This will allow you to add to, and be reminded of, your life strategies anytime you want. I love working on life strategies, so contact me if I can help you work on your life strategy.
